As children, our parents had dreams for us. They wanted us to do whatever was necessary to reach our highest __41__. Later in life, friends and spouses (配偶) may also have schedules for us. People close to us may have ideas about __42__ we should live our lives. The ideas usually __43__ love and the desire for us to be happy. Other times, they come from a place of need within them— __44__ it is the parent who wants us to __45__ his or her dreams or the friend who wants us to play an alreadydefined role. We can appreciate and consider those people's input, but __46__ we must follow our own inner guidance.
There may come a time when all the suggestions can become __47__. We may feel that the people we love don't approve of our judgment, which can __48__ us to some extent. It can __49__ the choices we make for our lives by making us __50__ ourselves. It may also fill a void (空虚) with their __51__ before we've had a chance to decide what we want. However, it can affect us __52__ as well. We may have to __53__ the feelings of resistance and to keep ourselves off from them. But we can take some time to __54__ ourselves of any unnecessary doubts and go within to become __55__ on what we desire for ourselves.
We can tell our loved ones how much we __56__ their thoughts and ideas, but that we need to live our own lives and make our own __57__. We can explain that they need to let us learn from our own experiences __58__ to rob us of wonderful life lessons and the opportunity to __59__ our own judgment. When they see that we are happy with our lives, they can see all we need them do is to share __60__ with us.
41.A.need B.ability C.potential D.creativity
42.A.what B.how C.why D.where
43.A.come across B.put away C.lead to D.come from
44.A.whether B.if C.while D.when
45.A.apply to B.live out C.manage to D.speed up
46.A.desperately B.comfortably C.eventually D.deliberately
47.A.unreliable B.understandable C.practical D.unbearable
48.A.ignore B.hurt C.defeat D.abandon
49.A.abuse B.mix C.influence D.reform
50.A.fight B.scold C.resist D.doubt
51.A.wishes B.themes C.benefits D.successes
52.A.universally B.abnormally C.actively D.effectively
53.A.handle B.realize C.avoid D.know
54.A.remind B.rid C.inform D.warn
55.A.false B.vain C.nuclear D.clear
56.A.reward B.praise C.appreciate D.trust
57.A.decisions B.requirements C.reservations D.commands
58.A.less than B.more than C.other than D.rather than
59.A.attain B.polish C.instruct D.mature
60.A.lesson B.joy C.opportunity D.freedom
41-45.CBDAB 46-50.CDBCD 51-55.ACABD 56-60.CADBB