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“Don’t tell anyone”. We hear these words when someone tells a secret to us. But it can be hard to keep a secret. We often tend to “ spill the beans ”, even if we regret it later.

According to Asim Shah, professor in the Menninger Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Baylor College of Medicine, US, keeping a secret may well “become a burden”. This is because people often have an “obsessive and anxious urge to share it with someone”.

An earlier study, led by Anita E. Kelly, a scientist at the University of Notre Dame, US, suggested that keeping a secret could cause stress. People entrusted ( 受委托的 ) with secrets can suffer from depression, anxiety, and body aches, reported the Daily Mail.

But with secrets so often getting out, why do people share them at all?Shah explained that people often feel that it will help them keep a person as a friend. Another reason people share secrets is guilt over keeping it from someone close to them. A sense of distrust can develop when people who are close do not share it with each other. “Keeping or sharing secrets often puts people in a position of either gaining or losing the trust of someone,” according to Shah.

He added that talkative people could let secrets slip out ( 泄露 ). But this doesn’t mean that it is a good idea only to share secrets with quiet people. A quiet person may be someone who keeps everything inside. To tell such a person a secret may cause them stress, and make them talk about the secret.

Shah said that to judge whether to tell someone a secret, you’d better put yourself in their position. Think about how you would feel to be told that you mustn’t give the information away. Shah also recommended that if you accidentally give up someone’s secret you should come clean about it. Let the person know that their secret isn’t so secret anymore.

1 What does underlined words “spill the beans” mean?

A Cut up beans. B Burst into laughter.

C Let out the secret. D Keep the words.

2 What did researchers at the University of Notre Dame discover about secret-keeping?

A It can help promote friendships between people. B It can result in mental and physical problems.

C It can result in a sense of distrust between friends. D It can harm relationships between friends.

3 What is the main message of Paragraph 5?

A It’s not a good idea to share your secrets with others.

B It’s better to share your secrets with quiet people.

C Quiet people suffer less stress from keeping secrets.

D Talkative people are unlikely to keep secrets.

4 What does Shah suggest people do if they give away someone’s secret by accident?

A Buy the person a gift as an apology.

B Stay away from the person.

C Exchange a new secret with the person.

D Tell the affected person what happened.

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这是一篇议论文。文章讲述了美国贝勒医学院门宁格精神病学与行为科学系教授阿西姆 沙阿表示,保守秘密很可能 成为一种负担

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词句猜测题。根据上文 “But it can be hard to keep a secret.( 但要保守秘密是很难的 )” 和下文 “even if we regret it later.( 即使后来后悔 )” 可知,划线词所在句子意为:我们经常倾向于 泄漏秘密 。由此可知, “spill the beans” 意为 泄露秘密 。故选 C

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推理判断题。根据文章第三段 “An earlier study, led by Anita E. Kelly, a scientist at the University of Notre Dame, US, suggested that keeping a secret could cause stress. People entrusted ( 受委托的 ) with secrets can suffer from depression, anxiety, and body aches, reported the Daily Mail.( 美国圣母大学科学家 Anita E. Kelly 领导的一项较早的研究表明,保守秘密会导致压力。据英国《每日邮报》报道,被托付秘密的人可能会感到沮丧、焦虑和身体疼痛 )” 可推知,研究人员发现它会导致精神和身体上的问题。故选 B

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主旨大意题。根据文章第五段 “He added that talkative people could let secrets slip out ( 泄露 ). But this doesn’t mean that it is a good idea only to share secrets with quiet people.( 他补充说,健谈的人可能会泄露秘密。但这并不意味着只和安静的人分享秘密是个好主意 )” 可知,文章第五段主要讲述了和别人分享你的秘密不是个好主意。故选 A

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细节理解题。根据文章最后一段 “Shah also recommended that if you accidentally give up someone’s secret you should come clean about it. Let the person know that their secret isn’t so secret anymore.(Shah 还建议,如果你不小心泄露了某人的秘密,你应该全盘招供。让这个人知道他们的秘密不再是秘密了 )” 可知, Shah 建议人们,如果他们偶然泄露了别人的秘密,应该让受到影响的人得知这一情况。故选 D

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When a friend comes to you after a stressful day, how do you comfort them? Do you let them complain? Do you pour them a glass of wine? Those could work. But a new study finds that a very effective technique is also simple and easy — hugging.

Michael Murphy is a psychology expert at Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh. He wanted to know if people who received hugs regularly could handle stress and conflict belief. " Individuals who report perceiving the availability of a network of supportive individuals lead to show better adaptation when faced with stress. But your just having a support network does not mean that you definitely feel that support, he said. "So some researchers have argued that many of the behaviors we use to support others who are stressed might actually be counterproductive, because  behaviors might unintentionally communicate to others that they're not able to manage stress."  he added.

Murphy and his team interviewed 404 men and women every evening for two weeks. During these interviews, the participants were asked a simple yes — or — no question — whether somebody had hugged them that day — and a simple yes or no question of whether they had experienced conflict or tension with somebody that day.

They also were asked questions about their social interactions — how many socialinteractions they had that day and responded to questions about negative and positive mood states . And the researchers found that individuals who experienced a conflict were not as negatively affected if they received a hug that day as were participants who experienced conflict and didn't get a hug. Murphy and his team also saw that people who received a hug didn't carry the negative effect to the next day, while those who did not receive a hug would. The findings are in the journal PLOS ONE.

Murphy does include this warning: "So our findings should not be taken as evidence that people should just start hugging anyone and everyone who seems distressed. A hug from one boss at work or a stranger on the street could be viewed as neither agreeable nor positive. " The idea is to relieve stress. Not add to it.

12What does the first paragraph serve as?

AA lead-in                                                  BA background

CAn argument                                             DA summary.

13Why did the researchers interview those people?

ATo test the influence of hugging.

BTo find out causes of their conflicts.

CTo ask for advice on relieving stress.

DTo seek ways to comfort troubled people.

14What do Murphy's words warn in the end?

AThe interview results prove their findings.

BA boss should comfort workers by hugging.

CThere are some limitations of their findings.

DPeople should hug others regularly and actively.

15Which can be the best title for the text?

AEveryone Needs Hugs                                BA Hug Could Do Anything

CHow to Comfort Your Friends                     DHugs Seem to Reduce Stress

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When you set a foot outside of your door to drop trash, go to a social event or go for a walk, thoughts like “I hope I don't see anyone I know” or “please don’ t talk to me” may run through your mind. I’ ve also said such things to myself. Sometimes the last thing you want to do is talk with someone, especially someone new.

Why do we go out of our ways to avoid people? Do we think meeting new people is a waste of time? Or are we just lazy, thinking that meeting someone new really is a trouble?

Communication is the key to life. We have been told that many times. Take the past generations, like our parents, for example. They seem to take full advantage of that whole “communication” idea because they grew up talking face to face while Generation-Y grew up staring at screens. We spend hours of our days sitting on Facebook. We send messages to our friends and think about all of the things we want to say to certain people that we don't have the courage to actually do in reality.

Nowadays, we are so caught up in our little circle of friends — our comfort zone. We love it that they laugh at our jokes, understand our feelings and can read our minds. Most importantly, they know when we want to be alone. They just get us.

Holding a conversation with someone new means agreeing with things that you don’t actually believe and being someone you think they want you to be — it is, as I said before, a trouble. It takes up so much energy, and at some point or another, it is too tiring.

But meeting new people is important. Life is too short, so meet all the people you can meet, make the effort to go out and laugh. Remember, Every “hello” leads to a smile — and a smile is worth a lot.

28What do we learn about the author?

AHe likes to be alone.

BHe feels stressed out lately.

CHe's active in attending social events.

DHe's afraid of talking to others at times.

29What's the problem of Generation-Y in the author’s eyes?

AThey rely on the Internet to socialize.

BThey are less confident in themselves.

CThey have difficulty in communicating.

DThey are unwilling to make new friends.

30Why do many young people avoid meeting new people?

AThey think it troublesome.

BThey are busy with their study.

CThey fear to disappoint their old friends.

DThey want to take time to do meaningful work.

31Why does the author write the text?

ATo tell about the importance of friends.

BTo give tips on how to meet new people.

CTo encourage people to meet new people.

DTo introduce the disadvantages of Generation-Y.

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 We’ve all been there: in a lift, in line at the bank or on an airplane, surrounded by people who are, like us, deeply focused on their smartphones or, worse, struggling with the uncomfortable silence.

What’s the problem? It’s possible that we all have compromised conversational intelligence. It’s more likely that none of us start a conversation because it’s awkward and challenging, or we think it’s annoying and unnecessary. But the next time you find yourself among strangers, consider that small talk is worth the trouble. Experts say it’s an invaluable social practice that results in big benefits.

Dismissing small talk as unimportant is easy, but we can’t forget that deep relationships wouldn’t

even exist if it weren’t for casual conversation. Small talk is the grease(润滑剂) for social communication, says Bernardo Carducci, director of the Shyness Research Institute at Indiana University Southeast. "Almost every great love story and each big business deal begins with small talk," he explains. "The key to successful small talk is learning how to connect with others, not just communicate with them."

In a 2014 study, Elizabeth Dunn, associate professor of psychology at UBC, invited people on their way into a coffee shop. One group was asked to seek out an interaction(互动) with its waiter; the other, to speak only when necessary. The results showed that those who chatted with their server reported significantly higher positive feelings and a better coffee shop experience. "It’s not that talking to the waiter is better than talking to your husband," says Dunn. "But interactions with peripheral(边缘的) members of our social network matter for our well-being also."

Dunn believes that people who reach out to strangers feel a significantly greater sense of belonging, a bond with others. Carducci believes developing such a sense of belonging starts with small talk. "Small talk is the basis of good manners," he says.

100What phenomenon is described in the first paragraph?

AAddiction to smartphones.

BInappropriate behaviours in public places.

CAbsence of communication between strangers.

DImpatience with slow service.

101What is important for successful small talk according to Carducci?

AShowing good manners.                             BRelating to other people.

CFocusing on a topic.                                   DMaking business deals.

102What does the coffee-shop study suggest about small talk?

AIt improves family relationships.                  BIt raises people’s confidence.

CIt matters as much as a formal talk.              DIt makes people feel good.

103What is the best title for the text?

AConversation Counts                                  BWays of Making Small Talk

CBenefits of Small Talk                                DUncomfortable Silence

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    In a recent series of experiments at the University of California, researchers studied toddlers’ thinking about winners and losers, bullies (欺凌) and victims.

In the first experiment, toddlers (学步儿童) watched a scene in which two puppets (木偶) had conflicting goals: One was crossing a stage from right to left, and the other from left to right. The puppets met in the middle and stopped. Eventually one puppet bowed down and moved aside, letting the other one pass by. Then researchers asked the toddlers which puppet they liked. The result: 20 out of 23 toddlers picked the higher-status puppet — the one that did not bow or move aside. It seems that individuals can gain status for being dominant (占优势的) and toddlers like winners better than losers.

But then researchers had another question: Do toddlers like winners no matter how they win? So, researchers did another experiment very similar to the one described above. But this time, the conflict ended because one puppet knocked the other down and out of the way. Now when the toddlers were asked who they liked, the results were different: Only 4 out of 23 children liked the winner.

These data suggest that children already love a winner by the age of 21-31 months. This does not necessarily mean that the preference is inborn: 21 months is enough time to learn a lot of things. But if a preference for winners is something we learn, we appear to learn it quite early.

Even more interesting, the preference for winners is not absolute. Children in our study did not like a winner who knocked a competitor down. This suggests that already by the age of 21-31 months, children’s liking for winners is balanced with other social concerns, including perhaps a general preference for nice or helpful people over aggressive ones.

In a time when the news is full of stories of public figures who celebrate winning at all costs, these results give us much confidence. Humans understand dominance, but we also expect strong individuals to guide, protect and help others. This feels like good news.

245One of the purposes of the experiments is to ________.

Ateach toddlers how to gain higher status

Boffer toddlers a chance to watch a scene

Cobserve the process of toddlers’ solving a conflict

Dfind out toddlers’ attitude toward winners and losers

246The toddlers regarded bowing and moving aside as a sign of ________.

Aobeying rules

Bgaining status

Cgiving in to the other

Dshowing good manners

247What does the second experiment tell us about toddlers?

AThey are excellent learners.

BThey are always changeable.

CThey show mercy to the loser.

DThey value kindness over winning.

248What does the author think of the results of the series of experiments?

ADisappointing.                                           BEncouraging.

CUnexpected.                                              DControversial.

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    “Without trust,” writes Rachel Botsman, “society cannot survive, and it certainly cannot thrive."

Clearly, we are in trouble. Two-thirds of people surveyed last year in 28 countries expressed low levels of trust in "mainstream institutions" of business, government and media.

In “Who Can You Trust?” Botsman, an Oxford lecturer offers a timely and accessible framework for understanding what trust is, how it works, why it matters and how it is evolving. It is an important guidance to the obstacles and opportunities we face as a society if we are to repair and redefine trust.

Through human history, trust has evolved in three basic stages: Local trust was enough when people lived in small communities and everybody knew everybody else; industrialization and urbanization required institutional trust so that people could trust complete strangers running governments, corporations, and standards for international trade, commerce and finance. We are now living through a massive global .shift of trust from institutions to individuals: distributed trust facilitated by high-tech platforms, many of which are run by the private sector.

This shift is caused by several factors. First, accountability is unequal. Rich, powerful and well-connected individuals have been able to accumulate vast quantities of often undocumented wealth by avoiding tax and anti-bribery laws, while ordinary people are likely to be caught and punished for lawbreaking. Second, people in power are no longer seen to deserve greater respect as the details of their lives are exposed.

Botsman does not prescribe how we deal with that. But if the old ways of giving and cancelling trust such as voting, markets and consumer choice are no longer functioning, then we must change or replace them. Systems must be "driven democratically and rationally," become more "transparent, inclusive, and accountable" and, most important, be designed to "put people first," which profit-driven platforms have failed to do sufficiently.

Tech executives are responding to the trust crisis mainly with promises of more and better technology. But Batsman warns that the responsibility for ensuring that the robots being used are trustworthy lies with the human beings who design and use them. We have not thought through how we hold those people accountable, let alone their robots. She warns against a natural tendency "to become over-reliant on machines." Ideally machines should be programmed to "understand" their own limitations and even seek human help or intervention.

A growing number of people hope that new trust mechanisms can be established through the use of exciting new technologies such as the blockchain(区块链). In essence, blockchains are digital public ledgers of transactions that cannot be changed, thereby creating greater transparency and accountability and making corruption much harder.

However, Botsman warns that the blockchain is no panacea for human trust. Whether blockchain systems lead to more accountable governance and a more just global economy will depend on their design and the intentions of those who build them. There is no app for fixing trust.

"Who Can You Trust?" does make a clear case for why it is important for the companies, governments and other institutions to be much more transparent and subject themselves to new mechanisms that can credibly hold them accountable. It is the only way they can hope to earn and maintain trust in the future.

41Which of the following orders of trust evolution is right?

Ainstitutional trust→ industrialized trust→ individual trust

Burbanized trust→ local trust→ institutional trust

Clocal trust→ institutional trust→ distributed trust

Dlocal trust→ urbanized trust →individual trust

42What can we conclude from the passage?

AProfit-driven platforms pay no attention to the importance of people.

BIt is the people who design and use technology that count in restoring trust.

CNew technologies, such as the blockchain can prevent corruption from happening.

DPeople should rely on new technologies to create transparency and accountability.

43What do the underlined words “no panacea" mean?

Anot a Herculean task                                   Ba hard nut

Cnot a cure-all medicine                               Da catch -22

44What's the author's attitude toward the possibility of using technology to restore trust?

ASupportive                                                BNegative

CIndifferent                                                DSkeptical

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